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		<title>By: Emĉjo</title>
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		<dc:creator>Emĉjo</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 09 Jul 2010 04:21:10 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Sal kara,&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;Pretty interesting actually, I realized reading the post that I actually always behave like I&#039;m drunk when speaking some other languages, like czech (wich I can , a bit) or polish (wich I almost can&#039;t), mixing slang wiht politeness, speaking to unknown people, and so on.&lt;br&gt;Thus, I believe alcohol does change something, and is able to change the state of mind for a day and get consciousness of all this shy-beeing / mistake-fear matter of fact, this consciousness may stay on a longer time.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;Fakte mi iom surpriziĝas ankaŭ ke nun vi igis vian aferon komercaĵo kaj volas vendi iun metodon por lerni lingvojn. Nu, mi kredas ke iuj homoj ja bezonas konsilojn, ĉu ne? Ne ĉiu lernis aŭ volas lerni E-on.&lt;br&gt;Ĝenerale mi volas diri al vi, mmh, certe mi ĵaluzas pri via scipovo de tiom da lingvoj, kaj samtempe, nu, iel vi hezitas franclingve, kaj eĉ esperante ofte erarumas. Do mi volas diri al vi ke oni bezonas pli ol 3 monatojn.&lt;br&gt;Mi mem post unu monato en Ĉeĥio povis babileti (mi lernis ĉeĥan proks. samrapide kiel vi, mi kredas), mi samopinias ke la komenco rapidas, nu, sed post unu jaro kaj duono en Germanio mi daŭre lernas kaj lernas novajn vortojn. Kaj mi nur post tuta jaro estis &quot;flua&quot;, sed eĉ nun mi ne konsideras min flua, kvankam mi parolas kun mi mem preskaŭ nur germane. Do, mmh... Sed mi kredas ke plejparte mi ĵaluzas vian sukceson. Sufiĉe malmature.&lt;br&gt;Mach mit Sprachen weiter, irgendwann reden wir deutsch miteinander.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;See you,&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;Emĉjo (Cassandra)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Sal kara,</p>
<p>Pretty interesting actually, I realized reading the post that I actually always behave like I&#39;m drunk when speaking some other languages, like czech (wich I can , a bit) or polish (wich I almost can&#39;t), mixing slang wiht politeness, speaking to unknown people, and so on.<br />Thus, I believe alcohol does change something, and is able to change the state of mind for a day and get consciousness of all this shy-beeing / mistake-fear matter of fact, this consciousness may stay on a longer time.</p>
<p>Fakte mi iom surpriziĝas ankaŭ ke nun vi igis vian aferon komercaĵo kaj volas vendi iun metodon por lerni lingvojn. Nu, mi kredas ke iuj homoj ja bezonas konsilojn, ĉu ne? Ne ĉiu lernis aŭ volas lerni E-on.<br />Ĝenerale mi volas diri al vi, mmh, certe mi ĵaluzas pri via scipovo de tiom da lingvoj, kaj samtempe, nu, iel vi hezitas franclingve, kaj eĉ esperante ofte erarumas. Do mi volas diri al vi ke oni bezonas pli ol 3 monatojn.<br />Mi mem post unu monato en Ĉeĥio povis babileti (mi lernis ĉeĥan proks. samrapide kiel vi, mi kredas), mi samopinias ke la komenco rapidas, nu, sed post unu jaro kaj duono en Germanio mi daŭre lernas kaj lernas novajn vortojn. Kaj mi nur post tuta jaro estis &#8220;flua&#8221;, sed eĉ nun mi ne konsideras min flua, kvankam mi parolas kun mi mem preskaŭ nur germane. Do, mmh&#8230; Sed mi kredas ke plejparte mi ĵaluzas vian sukceson. Sufiĉe malmature.<br />Mach mit Sprachen weiter, irgendwann reden wir deutsch miteinander.</p>
<p>See you,</p>
<p>Emĉjo (Cassandra)</p>
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		<title>By: Matt</title>
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		<dc:creator>Matt</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 15 Jun 2010 22:57:18 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>It&#039;s funny, but in all of this, nobody seems to have made the point I&#039;d like to make: I drink beer (and wine and occasionally other things) because I like it.  I&#039;m not going to claim it makes me any better at any languages though... nor do I insist that you like it.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>It&#39;s funny, but in all of this, nobody seems to have made the point I&#39;d like to make: I drink beer (and wine and occasionally other things) because I like it.  I&#39;m not going to claim it makes me any better at any languages though&#8230; nor do I insist that you like it.</p>
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		<title>By: j_a3</title>
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		<dc:creator>j_a3</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 20 May 2010 07:08:24 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hello Mr. Lewis,&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;Though I admire your post&#039;s premise, namely, that one need not drink to speak, I find that my German becomes much more fluid over a single Hefeweisen, than without one--one beer would surely rule out the &quot;I really speak like crap, but I think I speak well&quot; effect. I learned my german mostly while speaking with natives in Germany, always with hefeweisen-in-hand.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;I am vaguely familiar with research suggesting that knowledge is blood-alcohol specific, some going so far as to suggest that one should keep learning conditions the same as testing conditions. For example, for those who smoke while studying, smoking before a test would be advantageous. &lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;Therefore I am curious to see if you incorporate or notice some specific things that aid your language fluidity that are reminiscent of the time you originally learned it.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hello Mr. Lewis,</p>
<p>Though I admire your post&#39;s premise, namely, that one need not drink to speak, I find that my German becomes much more fluid over a single Hefeweisen, than without one&#8211;one beer would surely rule out the &#8220;I really speak like crap, but I think I speak well&#8221; effect. I learned my german mostly while speaking with natives in Germany, always with hefeweisen-in-hand.</p>
<p>I am vaguely familiar with research suggesting that knowledge is blood-alcohol specific, some going so far as to suggest that one should keep learning conditions the same as testing conditions. For example, for those who smoke while studying, smoking before a test would be advantageous. </p>
<p>Therefore I am curious to see if you incorporate or notice some specific things that aid your language fluidity that are reminiscent of the time you originally learned it.</p>
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		<title>By: Abby</title>
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		<dc:creator>Abby</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 19 May 2010 04:09:42 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I know this is really late, but I appreciate what you&#039;ve said here. I agree that alcohol is unnecessary for a good time. In high school, I played in a marching band, and we went to all of the high school (American) football to play a half-time show. If our team was up, we were all in a great mood, cheering and screaming, no booze required. Even me, a known introvert and least likely to &quot;go crazy.&quot; &lt;br&gt;I don&#039;t mind occasionally drinking, but I wouldn&#039;t do it just to release my inhibitions. I like your OJ idea, though. Might give it a try sometime.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I know this is really late, but I appreciate what you&#39;ve said here. I agree that alcohol is unnecessary for a good time. In high school, I played in a marching band, and we went to all of the high school (American) football to play a half-time show. If our team was up, we were all in a great mood, cheering and screaming, no booze required. Even me, a known introvert and least likely to &#8220;go crazy.&#8221; <br />I don&#39;t mind occasionally drinking, but I wouldn&#39;t do it just to release my inhibitions. I like your OJ idea, though. Might give it a try sometime.</p>
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		<title>By: Benny the Irish polyglot</title>
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		<dc:creator>Benny the Irish polyglot</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 13 May 2010 14:47:22 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Thanks for sharing your story! It&#039;s great to see how you are doing fine without alcohol ;) We have all of this social potential within us without needing the crutch of alcohol! :)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thanks for sharing your story! It&#39;s great to see how you are doing fine without alcohol <img src='http://www.fluentin3months.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_wink.gif' alt=';)' class='wp-smiley' />  We have all of this social potential within us without needing the crutch of alcohol! <img src='http://www.fluentin3months.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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		<title>By: Benny the Irish polyglot</title>
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		<dc:creator>Benny the Irish polyglot</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 13 May 2010 14:46:25 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Yeah it&#039;s great - I&#039;m all about going out and dancing, but there&#039;s no need for all of us to be drinking ;)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Yeah it&#39;s great &#8211; I&#39;m all about going out and dancing, but there&#39;s no need for all of us to be drinking <img src='http://www.fluentin3months.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_wink.gif' alt=';)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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		<title>By: Benny the Irish polyglot</title>
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		<dc:creator>Benny the Irish polyglot</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 13 May 2010 14:45:59 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>That&#039;s great! Hope the Astérix story helps you and makes it more interesting :D</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>That&#39;s great! Hope the Astérix story helps you and makes it more interesting <img src='http://www.fluentin3months.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_biggrin.gif' alt=':D' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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		<title>By: Benny the Irish polyglot</title>
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		<dc:creator>Benny the Irish polyglot</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 13 May 2010 14:45:41 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hi Dasha!&lt;br&gt;Thanks for your comment - I ran that article through google translate (since I don&#039;t speak Russian yet), and it&#039;s actually not the translation of my post. It&#039;s an interesting agreement with what I said, written entirely by the author, so I&#039;m happy to see it! Thanks for letting me know ;)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi Dasha!<br />Thanks for your comment &#8211; I ran that article through google translate (since I don&#39;t speak Russian yet), and it&#39;s actually not the translation of my post. It&#39;s an interesting agreement with what I said, written entirely by the author, so I&#39;m happy to see it! Thanks for letting me know <img src='http://www.fluentin3months.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_wink.gif' alt=';)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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		<title>By: Dasha</title>
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		<dc:creator>Dasha</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 13 May 2010 14:30:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Benny, I know that you&#039;ve posted this article days y days ago :) but I&#039;ve just found the post from the russian blog, where they tell about drinking and learning languages. actually, it&#039;s the translation of your post into russian.&lt;br&gt;if you didn&#039;t see it yet, i leave you the link&lt;br&gt;&lt;a href=&quot;http://lingvomania.info/2010/poliglotu-etanol.html&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;http://lingvomania.info/2010/poliglotu-etanol.html&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;saludos!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Benny, I know that you&#39;ve posted this article days y days ago <img src='http://www.fluentin3months.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' />  but I&#39;ve just found the post from the russian blog, where they tell about drinking and learning languages. actually, it&#39;s the translation of your post into russian.<br />if you didn&#39;t see it yet, i leave you the link<br /><a href="http://lingvomania.info/2010/poliglotu-etanol.html" rel="nofollow">http://lingvomania.info/2010/poliglotu-etanol.html</a></p>
<p>saludos!</p>
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		<title>By: Dddddddddddd</title>
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		<dc:creator>Dddddddddddd</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 23 Apr 2010 21:39:43 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hi Benny, &lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;I&#039;m portuguese and also don&#039;t drink. Ever...&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;When I&#039;m asked why, it always turns to a boring conversation. Like if I&#039;m preaching my moral superiorty or something.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;As an Astérix fan, I had the chance to use your Obélix story and I got a laugh from a pretty blonde girl :)&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;Hope you don&#039;t mind but I&#039;ll always use from now on.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;Grande abraço de Portugal,&lt;br&gt;D</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi Benny, </p>
<p>I&#39;m portuguese and also don&#39;t drink. Ever&#8230;</p>
<p>When I&#39;m asked why, it always turns to a boring conversation. Like if I&#39;m preaching my moral superiorty or something.</p>
<p>As an Astérix fan, I had the chance to use your Obélix story and I got a laugh from a pretty blonde girl <img src='http://www.fluentin3months.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
<p>Hope you don&#39;t mind but I&#39;ll always use from now on.</p>
<p>Grande abraço de Portugal,<br />D</p>
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		<title>By: Alysia Christina Raine</title>
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		<dc:creator>Alysia Christina Raine</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 24 Feb 2010 14:18:10 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hey Benny,&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;I totally know what you mean. I love hanging with my friends at the bar while they&#039;re drunk and I&#039;m sober. I used to be a heavy drinker back when i was studying at university, but since then I&#039;ve developed an allergic reaction to alcohol, so now I can&#039;t have any, which is definitely fine with me. I feel a lot healthier these days and I&#039;ve saved so much money!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hey Benny,</p>
<p>I totally know what you mean. I love hanging with my friends at the bar while they&#39;re drunk and I&#39;m sober. I used to be a heavy drinker back when i was studying at university, but since then I&#39;ve developed an allergic reaction to alcohol, so now I can&#39;t have any, which is definitely fine with me. I feel a lot healthier these days and I&#39;ve saved so much money!</p>
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		<title>By: ER</title>
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		<dc:creator>ER</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 23 Feb 2010 13:34:51 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&quot;* They don’t actually speak it better, but think that they do.&lt;br&gt;* They lose their inhibitions and feel more confident and less worried about making mistakes.&lt;br&gt;* They stop thinking so much and just speak, without hesitating to search for the “right” word&lt;br&gt;* They are usually shy, but suddenly become extrovert thanks to the alcohol&quot;&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;Wow, those all applied to me. I have always been introverted and sometimes find it difficult to be outgoing in social situations, and I would almost always use alcohol as a crutch. When I was drinking a lot in Italy, I distinctly remember feeling really good about my Italian-speaking abilities after a few drinks. It was like it would just roll off my tongue. Looking back on it now, it&#039;s pretty clear that I just didn&#039;t feel as inhibited or self-conscious as I would sober.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;Luckily, I&#039;ve been sober for over 18 months now and like you said, Benny, I can now remember all of my traveling experiences. I felt awkward going out at first, but then I realized that no one really cares whether I&#039;m drinking or not, and life is a lot better (and healthier) now. Now I just focus on mental ways to loosen up, and it&#039;s been working pretty well. Cheers,&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;ER</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>&#8220;* They don’t actually speak it better, but think that they do.<br />* They lose their inhibitions and feel more confident and less worried about making mistakes.<br />* They stop thinking so much and just speak, without hesitating to search for the “right” word<br />* They are usually shy, but suddenly become extrovert thanks to the alcohol&#8221;</p>
<p>Wow, those all applied to me. I have always been introverted and sometimes find it difficult to be outgoing in social situations, and I would almost always use alcohol as a crutch. When I was drinking a lot in Italy, I distinctly remember feeling really good about my Italian-speaking abilities after a few drinks. It was like it would just roll off my tongue. Looking back on it now, it&#39;s pretty clear that I just didn&#39;t feel as inhibited or self-conscious as I would sober.</p>
<p>Luckily, I&#39;ve been sober for over 18 months now and like you said, Benny, I can now remember all of my traveling experiences. I felt awkward going out at first, but then I realized that no one really cares whether I&#39;m drinking or not, and life is a lot better (and healthier) now. Now I just focus on mental ways to loosen up, and it&#39;s been working pretty well. Cheers,</p>
<p>ER</p>
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		<title>By: Stutz</title>
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		<dc:creator>Stutz</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 28 Jan 2010 00:12:15 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>It&#039;s nice to hear about someone else who simply doesn&#039;t drink.  I am like that, too: no, it&#039;s not for religious or moral reasons, I just find nothing particularly enjoyable about it.  Some people seem to find being drunk on a par with sex for the amount of fun it is, and they&#039;re incredulous that you don&#039;t.  I have allowed myself to bow to peer pressure and get drunk (or nearly so) on three occasions (I&#039;m 29).  It was only somewhat entertaining, and far, far less satisfying than having a great conversation with a group of friends -- and conversation doesn&#039;t give you a headache in the morning.  And like you, I find the taste of beer revolting.  Most wine tastes as I imagine battery acid might taste, and gives me heartburn like I imagine drinking battery acid might.  Likewise for hard alcohol.  Needless to say, my drunk experiences relied heavily on sweet mixed cocktails.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;The thing you have going for you, unlike myself, is that you seem to be an extrovert: the first to sing karaoke or get on the dance floor, as you say.  I&#039;m a born introvert, find dancing tedious and awkward (especially in night clubs, which are generally obnoxious), am bored and uncomfortable in bars (the local pub isn&#039;t quite the center of the social scene here in the US as I&#039;m told it is in the UK/Ireland), and am similarly bored and uncomfortable at parties.  Lucky for me, at my age most of my friends are married with kids, and have grown out of the night clubs/bars/parties phase of life!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>It&#39;s nice to hear about someone else who simply doesn&#39;t drink.  I am like that, too: no, it&#39;s not for religious or moral reasons, I just find nothing particularly enjoyable about it.  Some people seem to find being drunk on a par with sex for the amount of fun it is, and they&#39;re incredulous that you don&#39;t.  I have allowed myself to bow to peer pressure and get drunk (or nearly so) on three occasions (I&#39;m 29).  It was only somewhat entertaining, and far, far less satisfying than having a great conversation with a group of friends &#8212; and conversation doesn&#39;t give you a headache in the morning.  And like you, I find the taste of beer revolting.  Most wine tastes as I imagine battery acid might taste, and gives me heartburn like I imagine drinking battery acid might.  Likewise for hard alcohol.  Needless to say, my drunk experiences relied heavily on sweet mixed cocktails.</p>
<p>The thing you have going for you, unlike myself, is that you seem to be an extrovert: the first to sing karaoke or get on the dance floor, as you say.  I&#39;m a born introvert, find dancing tedious and awkward (especially in night clubs, which are generally obnoxious), am bored and uncomfortable in bars (the local pub isn&#39;t quite the center of the social scene here in the US as I&#39;m told it is in the UK/Ireland), and am similarly bored and uncomfortable at parties.  Lucky for me, at my age most of my friends are married with kids, and have grown out of the night clubs/bars/parties phase of life!</p>
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		<title>By: Benny the Irish polyglot</title>
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		<dc:creator>Benny the Irish polyglot</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 09 Dec 2009 14:57:22 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Thanks for your response Lan :)&lt;br&gt;I&#039;m glad you can see what I was talking about with peer pressure. My metabolism could handle drink but I choose not to. This decision gets on people&#039;s nerves a lot...&lt;br&gt;My solution to avoid getting made fun of etc. is to avoid the issue altogether. I&#039;ve worked really hard over the last years on the typical psychological issues we naturally have for being introvert and it means that when I&#039;m out I am very relaxed and talk to everyone. Sadly they presume I&#039;m drunk based on this (despite the fact that I&#039;m very lucid), but luckily it means the &quot;not-drinking&quot; issue never comes up, since I never raise it.&lt;br&gt;I find responses like Stacy&#039;s frustrating because it belittles all of the work and embarrassment I had to go through in the last years to get here and seem &quot;naturally extroverted&quot;. Like I have a magic power out of reach of mere mortals or something. I&#039;m not saying that it&#039;s not hard work, but when you are willing to make that investment the lifelong benefits are amazing :)&lt;br&gt;You&#039;re right that this post was inspired by the continued peer pressure I get when people discover that I don&#039;t drink. I am happy to have people tell me that I&#039;m wrong, but after over a decade of socialising with drunk people I have yet to get a logical argument after they say that. Stacy&#039;s drunk-prince-charming claim is a funny example (and admittedly, the first time I&#039;ve seen it), but people will invent any nonsensical argument to defend a way of life they&#039;ve had for decades. I would be equally stubborn about not wanting to give up pizzas or chocolate for example.&lt;br&gt;I won&#039;t force people not to drink, but on &lt;I&gt;my blog&lt;/I&gt; people have to accept that I&#039;m going to give you the cold hard facts of why I don&#039;t think you should ;) When I&#039;m out, I generally avoid this discussion unless someone gets aggressive about it.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thanks for your response Lan <img src='http://www.fluentin3months.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> <br />I&#39;m glad you can see what I was talking about with peer pressure. My metabolism could handle drink but I choose not to. This decision gets on people&#39;s nerves a lot&#8230;<br />My solution to avoid getting made fun of etc. is to avoid the issue altogether. I&#39;ve worked really hard over the last years on the typical psychological issues we naturally have for being introvert and it means that when I&#39;m out I am very relaxed and talk to everyone. Sadly they presume I&#39;m drunk based on this (despite the fact that I&#39;m very lucid), but luckily it means the &#8220;not-drinking&#8221; issue never comes up, since I never raise it.<br />I find responses like Stacy&#39;s frustrating because it belittles all of the work and embarrassment I had to go through in the last years to get here and seem &#8220;naturally extroverted&#8221;. Like I have a magic power out of reach of mere mortals or something. I&#39;m not saying that it&#39;s not hard work, but when you are willing to make that investment the lifelong benefits are amazing <img src='http://www.fluentin3months.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> <br />You&#39;re right that this post was inspired by the continued peer pressure I get when people discover that I don&#39;t drink. I am happy to have people tell me that I&#39;m wrong, but after over a decade of socialising with drunk people I have yet to get a logical argument after they say that. Stacy&#39;s drunk-prince-charming claim is a funny example (and admittedly, the first time I&#39;ve seen it), but people will invent any nonsensical argument to defend a way of life they&#39;ve had for decades. I would be equally stubborn about not wanting to give up pizzas or chocolate for example.<br />I won&#39;t force people not to drink, but on <i>my blog</i> people have to accept that I&#39;m going to give you the cold hard facts of why I don&#39;t think you should <img src='http://www.fluentin3months.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_wink.gif' alt=';)' class='wp-smiley' />  When I&#39;m out, I generally avoid this discussion unless someone gets aggressive about it.</p>
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		<title>By: Benny the Irish polyglot</title>
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		<dc:creator>Benny the Irish polyglot</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 09 Dec 2009 14:40:17 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&lt;i&gt;Sober guys take advantage of drunk girls?&lt;/i&gt; That is &lt;b&gt;ABSOLUTELY RIDICULOUS&lt;/b&gt;. Drunk guys are by far more likely to take advantage and ABUSE girls. I don&#039;t know what cave you have been living in if you think otherwise.&lt;br&gt;In my own case I&#039;ve never brought a girl home drunk. How I chat up girls means that they haven&#039;t ever even had one drink if we go on to the next level. I don&#039;t use nightclubs and bars for this as I find drunk girls extremely un-sexy - the furthest I would go in that situation would be to ask for a number and try to get to know her when she isn&#039;t under the influence. It&#039;s sad that people can&#039;t think outside of the box if they are looking for a partner and think the only way in the world to meet them is where they are intoxicated. I&#039;m amazed you&#039;ve actually suggested that drunk guys are morally superior to sober guys.&lt;br&gt;The rest of your response just shows pure laziness in not trying to be social until you have beer&#039;s permission and I&#039;ve already responded to these typical answers in this post. The only reason I&#039;m so extroverted is because I used to be very shy, but I decided to WORK on the problem, get over my &lt;a href=&quot;http://www.fluentin3months.com/scared-to-meet-new-people/&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;fear to meet new people&lt;/a&gt; and learn to be social. The time this investment takes is longer than the 2 seconds it takes to drink a beer, so most people take the lazy route. I understand it, but alcohol is not a tool. It&#039;s a chemical product that damages your liver and your brain cells.&lt;br&gt;When you say ridiculous things like drunk guys being more prince charming than sober guys you give me the very ammunition I need to &quot;knock on those of us who do need a drink&quot;. You&#039;re just inventing excuses at that stage and clinging at straws to prove me wrong.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><i>Sober guys take advantage of drunk girls?</i> That is <b>ABSOLUTELY RIDICULOUS</b>. Drunk guys are by far more likely to take advantage and ABUSE girls. I don&#39;t know what cave you have been living in if you think otherwise.<br />In my own case I&#39;ve never brought a girl home drunk. How I chat up girls means that they haven&#39;t ever even had one drink if we go on to the next level. I don&#39;t use nightclubs and bars for this as I find drunk girls extremely un-sexy &#8211; the furthest I would go in that situation would be to ask for a number and try to get to know her when she isn&#39;t under the influence. It&#39;s sad that people can&#39;t think outside of the box if they are looking for a partner and think the only way in the world to meet them is where they are intoxicated. I&#39;m amazed you&#39;ve actually suggested that drunk guys are morally superior to sober guys.<br />The rest of your response just shows pure laziness in not trying to be social until you have beer&#39;s permission and I&#39;ve already responded to these typical answers in this post. The only reason I&#39;m so extroverted is because I used to be very shy, but I decided to WORK on the problem, get over my <a href="http://www.fluentin3months.com/scared-to-meet-new-people/" rel="nofollow">fear to meet new people</a> and learn to be social. The time this investment takes is longer than the 2 seconds it takes to drink a beer, so most people take the lazy route. I understand it, but alcohol is not a tool. It&#39;s a chemical product that damages your liver and your brain cells.<br />When you say ridiculous things like drunk guys being more prince charming than sober guys you give me the very ammunition I need to &#8220;knock on those of us who do need a drink&#8221;. You&#39;re just inventing excuses at that stage and clinging at straws to prove me wrong.</p>
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		<title>By: Lan</title>
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		<dc:creator>Lan</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 09 Dec 2009 09:29:01 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Wow, did you really read all this in his post? I didn&#039;t interpret it like this at all. The fact is that there really is something called peer pressure, and he&#039;s probably making a statement against it, in a way. I&#039;m a non-drinker because, as an Asian, my metabolism doesn&#039;t help and I feel sick after just one beer. My social life would be so much better if I could actually hold my drink and just &quot;blend in&quot; with my friends who drink a lot. It&#039;s tough to explain that I don&#039;t drink, and being known as that person who doesn&#039;t drink and being made fun of, etc. etc. Anyway, regardless of my or anyone&#039;s reasons for not drinking, I have to say that it&#039;s pretty annoying that so many people just don&#039;t respect those who don&#039;t drink! My guess is that Benny just had his share in life of getting peer pressure to do something that he simply doesn&#039;t want to do, and that he wrote this post to show that maybe drinking is overrated sometimes... I think it was a very encouraging text for me, I felt great seeing that there are other people who don&#039;t drink (although for different reasons) and just don&#039;t care about what others think! I&#039;d like to reach that level of confidence! Either that or just get the necessary enzymes to metabolize alcohol :D&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;With that said (to stacy), from my own experience of drinking my half-beer, getting fully drunk and speaking a foreign language, what I can remember is that it does help you to speak more, but not necessarily better... those were my two cents. ;)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Wow, did you really read all this in his post? I didn&#39;t interpret it like this at all. The fact is that there really is something called peer pressure, and he&#39;s probably making a statement against it, in a way. I&#39;m a non-drinker because, as an Asian, my metabolism doesn&#39;t help and I feel sick after just one beer. My social life would be so much better if I could actually hold my drink and just &#8220;blend in&#8221; with my friends who drink a lot. It&#39;s tough to explain that I don&#39;t drink, and being known as that person who doesn&#39;t drink and being made fun of, etc. etc. Anyway, regardless of my or anyone&#39;s reasons for not drinking, I have to say that it&#39;s pretty annoying that so many people just don&#39;t respect those who don&#39;t drink! My guess is that Benny just had his share in life of getting peer pressure to do something that he simply doesn&#39;t want to do, and that he wrote this post to show that maybe drinking is overrated sometimes&#8230; I think it was a very encouraging text for me, I felt great seeing that there are other people who don&#39;t drink (although for different reasons) and just don&#39;t care about what others think! I&#39;d like to reach that level of confidence! Either that or just get the necessary enzymes to metabolize alcohol <img src='http://www.fluentin3months.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_biggrin.gif' alt=':D' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
<p>With that said (to stacy), from my own experience of drinking my half-beer, getting fully drunk and speaking a foreign language, what I can remember is that it does help you to speak more, but not necessarily better&#8230; those were my two cents. <img src='http://www.fluentin3months.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_wink.gif' alt=';)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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		<title>By: stacy</title>
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		<dc:creator>stacy</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 09 Dec 2009 07:19:19 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>hey man, basically what you&#039;re saying is that you&#039;re extroverted as fuck. And that&#039;s all great and dandy for you, but some people aren&#039;t that way, and they aren&#039;t gonna talk until they&#039;ve had those few beers. And if that helps them, then it&#039;s great, and maybe they can learn to be more like you, and not need the booze, but the booze is a tool that they are using, and there&#039;s nothing wrong with that. &lt;br&gt;Normally I enjoy your articles, but this one sounds like you&#039;re saying, &quot;hey, look at me, I have an absurdly extroverted personality so I don&#039;t to drink to make as ass of myself&quot;. It makes the rest of us who probably do need to drink to do be friendly like you are naturally feel shitty. Alcohol&#039;s a tool, and it&#039;s fun, but if you don&#039;t need that tool then you don&#039;t have to knock on people that do. &lt;br&gt;Also, not gonna lie, it&#039;s pretty creepy when guys don&#039;t drink. You&#039;re putting yourself at an unfair advantage in terms of looking for that special someone for the night, and a sober guy can really easily take advantage of drunk girls/guys. If that&#039;s not you, I apologize.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>hey man, basically what you&#39;re saying is that you&#39;re extroverted as fuck. And that&#39;s all great and dandy for you, but some people aren&#39;t that way, and they aren&#39;t gonna talk until they&#39;ve had those few beers. And if that helps them, then it&#39;s great, and maybe they can learn to be more like you, and not need the booze, but the booze is a tool that they are using, and there&#39;s nothing wrong with that. <br />Normally I enjoy your articles, but this one sounds like you&#39;re saying, &#8220;hey, look at me, I have an absurdly extroverted personality so I don&#39;t to drink to make as ass of myself&#8221;. It makes the rest of us who probably do need to drink to do be friendly like you are naturally feel shitty. Alcohol&#39;s a tool, and it&#39;s fun, but if you don&#39;t need that tool then you don&#39;t have to knock on people that do. <br />Also, not gonna lie, it&#39;s pretty creepy when guys don&#39;t drink. You&#39;re putting yourself at an unfair advantage in terms of looking for that special someone for the night, and a sober guy can really easily take advantage of drunk girls/guys. If that&#39;s not you, I apologize.</p>
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		<title>By: RayRay </title>
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		<dc:creator>RayRay </dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 19 Nov 2009 02:24:47 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>That&#039;s pretty cool that you do not drink! It *sometimes* seems impossible to not to, it&#039;s quite a cultural norm consuming the liquid-legal drug.  I recall that even as I was growing up, alcohol was a frequent part of my family&#039;s gatherings. &lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;Although I want to share with you a unique situation in which something happened to me that has never happened before. I hadn&#039;t thought it plausible. &lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;My boyfriend is Russian. He speaks English fluently, although with a slight accent. He immigrated to Canada when he was just 17. His parents still reside in Russia and they sadly do not know very much English. &lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;In an attempt to communicate with them; I&#039;ve purchased a self-teach Russian book and have been watching Russian cartoons in an attempt to perhaps learn some Russian. My attempts haven&#039;t been futile; I&#039;ve learned about 50 different Russian words. I also attempt speaking with them and we do have long conversations - without either party comprehending. &lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;But one day, when I was entirely intoxiated, my boyfriend spoke with me in Russian. He claims that he had an entire conversation (with me understanding and responding) in Russian. This conversation is a &quot;black-out&quot; to me. I don&#039;t remember it at all. Now, I by NO MEANS push ANYBODY to drink to the point where they can&#039;t remember. I also don&#039;t recommend drinking everyday. I seldom drink. My boyfriend isn&#039;t a liar and has a pretty stable memory. &lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;Now, keep in mind that my story has nothing to really do with learning Russian. It&#039;s very possible that perhaps because I was intoxiated I wasn&#039;t conscience about my accent in Russian; and that I wasn&#039;t nervous about finding the proper words. It&#039;s also possible that I know more Russian than I thought I had. (Hey, I&#039;ve been hanging around Russians for months and watching Russia media.)&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;I just found it funny that it happened. XD</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>That&#39;s pretty cool that you do not drink! It *sometimes* seems impossible to not to, it&#39;s quite a cultural norm consuming the liquid-legal drug.  I recall that even as I was growing up, alcohol was a frequent part of my family&#39;s gatherings. </p>
<p>Although I want to share with you a unique situation in which something happened to me that has never happened before. I hadn&#39;t thought it plausible. </p>
<p>My boyfriend is Russian. He speaks English fluently, although with a slight accent. He immigrated to Canada when he was just 17. His parents still reside in Russia and they sadly do not know very much English. </p>
<p>In an attempt to communicate with them; I&#39;ve purchased a self-teach Russian book and have been watching Russian cartoons in an attempt to perhaps learn some Russian. My attempts haven&#39;t been futile; I&#39;ve learned about 50 different Russian words. I also attempt speaking with them and we do have long conversations &#8211; without either party comprehending. </p>
<p>But one day, when I was entirely intoxiated, my boyfriend spoke with me in Russian. He claims that he had an entire conversation (with me understanding and responding) in Russian. This conversation is a &#8220;black-out&#8221; to me. I don&#39;t remember it at all. Now, I by NO MEANS push ANYBODY to drink to the point where they can&#39;t remember. I also don&#39;t recommend drinking everyday. I seldom drink. My boyfriend isn&#39;t a liar and has a pretty stable memory. </p>
<p>Now, keep in mind that my story has nothing to really do with learning Russian. It&#39;s very possible that perhaps because I was intoxiated I wasn&#39;t conscience about my accent in Russian; and that I wasn&#39;t nervous about finding the proper words. It&#39;s also possible that I know more Russian than I thought I had. (Hey, I&#39;ve been hanging around Russians for months and watching Russia media.)</p>
<p>I just found it funny that it happened. XD</p>
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		<title>By: Luciana</title>
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		<dc:creator>Luciana</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 03 Nov 2009 23:05:24 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Ei Benny!
Como você vai ser carioca se não bebe uma cerva! Rsss
Aproveita que nossas cervejas tem 0,0001 de alcool!
Brincadeira menino eu tenho que concordar com você, é possível alcançar o estado mental próprio pra uma festa com um suco de laranja, afinal é mais uma dependência psicológica (nesse caso é claro). Mas eu acredito que é uma convenção social que muitas pessoas usam pra &#039;conectar&#039; umas com as outras. É tipo um rito de passagem, sei lá. Tipo &quot;eu confio na pessoa que eu fico bêbada junto&quot; . No entanto eu já usei a bebida pra ter coragem de praticar meu inglês no início e depois de conquistar alguma confiança parei - não de beber é claro, mas de depender da bebida pra praticar uma lingua! Rss</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Ei Benny!<br />
Como você vai ser carioca se não bebe uma cerva! Rsss<br />
Aproveita que nossas cervejas tem 0,0001 de alcool!<br />
Brincadeira menino eu tenho que concordar com você, é possível alcançar o estado mental próprio pra uma festa com um suco de laranja, afinal é mais uma dependência psicológica (nesse caso é claro). Mas eu acredito que é uma convenção social que muitas pessoas usam pra &#8216;conectar&#8217; umas com as outras. É tipo um rito de passagem, sei lá. Tipo &#8220;eu confio na pessoa que eu fico bêbada junto&#8221; . No entanto eu já usei a bebida pra ter coragem de praticar meu inglês no início e depois de conquistar alguma confiança parei &#8211; não de beber é claro, mas de depender da bebida pra praticar uma lingua! Rss</p>
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		<title>By: Marko</title>
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		<dc:creator>Marko</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 06 Oct 2009 17:55:08 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hahaha-- I literally just happened upon this blog today, and I have to say, this is a delightful entry with which to become acquainted with one.

I once met a Peruvian on a night out after a few beers, and even being out of practice by about a year or two, I managed to unexpectedly wow him with my Castilian. I was proud that I managed to make such good use of Spanish even after so long, but disappointed that I probably wouldn&#039;t have even tried, had I been more sober.

Nowadays I have little contention with alcohol in small doses, and even now I occasionally do enjoy that evening glass of wine, but that story goes back to a time when I drank a good deal more alcohol, and for all the wrong reasons (of course, that time was university). Point being-- alcohol does seem to break down barriers of hesitation for some, but it&#039;s never worth the disappointment. I make it a point not to drink in particularly &quot;social&quot; settings, because I&#039;d rather be proud of what little confidence I can muster up, then how much I can amass just by being dependent on a drink to do all the work.

That said, I think I&#039;m off to have a morning glass of orange juice in your honor. Glad I found this blog!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hahaha&#8211; I literally just happened upon this blog today, and I have to say, this is a delightful entry with which to become acquainted with one.</p>
<p>I once met a Peruvian on a night out after a few beers, and even being out of practice by about a year or two, I managed to unexpectedly wow him with my Castilian. I was proud that I managed to make such good use of Spanish even after so long, but disappointed that I probably wouldn&#8217;t have even tried, had I been more sober.</p>
<p>Nowadays I have little contention with alcohol in small doses, and even now I occasionally do enjoy that evening glass of wine, but that story goes back to a time when I drank a good deal more alcohol, and for all the wrong reasons (of course, that time was university). Point being&#8211; alcohol does seem to break down barriers of hesitation for some, but it&#8217;s never worth the disappointment. I make it a point not to drink in particularly &#8220;social&#8221; settings, because I&#8217;d rather be proud of what little confidence I can muster up, then how much I can amass just by being dependent on a drink to do all the work.</p>
<p>That said, I think I&#8217;m off to have a morning glass of orange juice in your honor. Glad I found this blog!</p>
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