Why I love Brazilians (& Br. Portuguese)

Brazilians

Brazilian Portuguese

Motivation is extremely important in being able to improve your command over a language. Today I’d like to share my motivation for deciding to make Portuguese the first language that I want to reach the stage of hopefully speaking with extremely little or even no foreign accent, enough that even Brazilians think that I’m Brazilian! If you are learning a language yourself you should try to come up with a similar list (feel free to share your motivations in the comments) and help reinforce your own passion to learn it :)

Brazilian Portuguese itself is a beautiful language, which sounds really pleasant (especially in music). In my opinion it sounds much nicer than French (which many people tend to rate as the nicest sounding language) and I can even go as far as saying right now that it is my favourite language. It has lots of interesting characteristics that make it very unique and interesting to study. Despite its similarity to Spanish (which I’ll admit, did give me quite the head start in learning it), there are a lot of differences which are important to be aware of if you are studying it after Spanish. It is its own beautiful language that evolved in a very different way.

However, I’ll admit that my love for Brazilian Portuguese has a lot less to do with grammar, vocabulary, syntax, pronunciation etc. and a lot more to do with something integrally attached to many languages; the culture of its speakers.

Brazil

After travelling for 8 years, and living in 13 countries (and visiting a few others) I can say that my favourite country in the world (at least so far) is Brazil. This is my third time here and it definitely won’t be the last.

There are lots of great things in Brazil; the tropical climate, the food, the drinks, the Carnaval and parties, the dances, their passion for sport, the vast range of nature, the amazing mix of European/South American/African cultures and skin colour, the beaches, and so much more.

But this isn’t what actually keeps bringing me back, and it isn’t the reason I am so passionate about the language. The reason I like Brazil so much is plain and simple; it has the coolest people on the planet! I am so passionate about this belief, that the purpose of this particular visit is to become Brazilian and see if I can understand them better by emulating them; imitation is, after all, the best form of flattery! As I do this, I hope to be able to communicate even better with them and get to know the culture I love so much even more. Today I want to share some of these reasons that I love them so much with you, so you can understand my passion for this mission!

Brazilians

Don’t get me wrong; every place in the world has arseholes, and there’s no way I can accurately generalize almost 200,000,000 people. But in travelling from Porto Alegre in the very south all the way up to Natal in the north-east, mostly by bus (that’s well over 3,000km), I’ve met a lot of Brazilians on the way, and I rarely meet any that I don’t like. I’ve met lots in Europe too, first by living with several Brazilians in Spain and then through the extremely active communities of Brazilians for almost every major city in the world, in the social networking site Orkut . They always have a spark in them that makes them special and unique compared to us Europeans/North Americans. It’s so hard to actually describe this spark, but I’ll try to list a few points that come to mind!

  • They are really friendly! I travel alone and it can be hard sometimes when in cultures that are closed and fearful of making new friends. Here in Brazil, any place I go, I can guarantee myself several invitations to parties and dinners within hours, whether I know someone already or not. There is less of a barrier to break through to be considered as someone’s friend in a shorter time. They share the Irish philosophy of a stranger is just a friend you haven’t met yet!
  • They are social. Although Brazilians do love to watch soap operas and football, they are almost always otherwise out of the house in their free time. Brazil has pushed me towards being extrovert where I was not as much before. I’ve met a few Brazilians who claim to be “shy” and I would put them in good competition for the life of the party compared to other Westerners.
  • They are so nice!! Almost everywhere you go, you are greeted with a genuine smile and curiosity. Rather than being xenophobic, which I have unfortunately come across in some other Western countries, they are actually even more curious to get to know you when they find out you are a foreigner!
  • They are healthy. Brazilians don’t have their famous great bodies because of genetics; they work out regularly, eat a much more balanced diet than a lot of Europeans/North Americans and are a lot less stressed out than them too!
  • They are optimists. Brazil definitely has plenty of problems; poverty, floods, corruption, gang wars etc. but on a day-to-day basis they don’t complain about stupid little things as much as we do, and they enjoy life much more because of it!
  • They are very hygienic – surfaces, buildings and services accessed by the public are cleaned very regularly, and Brazilians have more regular showers than any other culture in the world I’ve encountered
  • They are warm people. I personally love greeting people with warm hugs, friendly pecks on the cheek and maintaining closer body-contact during a conversation. Sadly, other countries seem to have invented this horrible concept of a “personal bubble” that nearly all others can’t ever enter.
  • They are smart. People seem to love to simply categorise Brazil as a third world country that is backwards, where everyone still lives in trees etc. They are actually more advanced than we are in several ways! They use way more Biofuels, they tackle the unemployment problem by creating lots of jobs (like 2 people on a city bus; one to drive and the other to take money who you can pester with questions), they do some things just better than we do (any inter-city bus I’ve taken in Brazil includes a baggage receipt, and the “bag guy” only gives you your bag if you have the corresponding receipt number. In Europe, every time the bus stops I have to look out the window to make sure that nobody is stealing my stuff…), rather than create more bad-blood between countries by inventing different visa systems for different people, Brazil simply has a reciprocal visa system. Anything a Brazilian has to do to get into your country, you have to do to get into his! Good news for Europeans where Brazilians are freely given tourist visas on entry, bad news for Americans, who have to pay $100 and send off an application in advance… just like Brazilians have to do!
  • The beautiful girls (or men). In my opinion, Brazil has the most beautiful people on the planet, especially thanks to the melting pot of cultures from all around the world. Sadly, there is a misleading belief that Brazilian girls are “easy” that I really hate to hear abroad. This is a complete misunderstanding of the culture; based on the points I gave above, because Brazilians are friendly you can approach even the prettiest girl and she’ll be nice to you (sorry, but pretty girls in Europe can sometimes be quite full of themselves!!), because they are warm they will give you a greeting of kisses on the cheek, as in most Latin cultures. This is all just being friendly. If I ever hear someone speaking badly of Brazilian girls I’ll go Capoeira on them and kick their ass. If you want to be anything more than a friend, you have to be charming like anywhere else in the world. Rather than being simple sex objects, Brazilian girls are strong women (despite the macho culture) and really fun to spend time with. If you’re lucky you may meet a single one and start something special if you are charming enough. The reasons I like some Brazilian girls so much after that… I won’t get into :P (Oh yes, I’m told that the men are good looking too!)
  • They are relaxed. You learn to love Brazilian time when here. It slows you down to the pace of appreciating life much more than being controlled by the gadget on your wrist will ever allow you to.
  • They are proud. Brazilians love Brazil, and they love the state and the city that they are from. As you can tell, this love is spreading and it has infected me! :P

If I wanted to be exhaustive, I could write a whole book about why I love Brazil and Brazilians, but hopefully this gives you a bit of an idea! If you’ve ever been in Brazil, please share your reasons for also liking them in the comments! Is there another culture or language you are passionate about? Share it with us! :D

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  • julianateichmann
    Adorei ver o quanto você ama o Brasil! Eu mesma as vezes redescubro a minha paixão por essa terra maravilhosa.
    Você chegou a conhecer Minas Gerais?

    abraços
  • Os colorados fanáticos devem odiar esse texto só por causa da foto : P
  • É... poderia ter usado uma foto típica com bandeira do Brasil, mas gosto de cada estado por motivos diferentes! Todo brasileiro é especial e queria mostrar isso a pesar do feito que teria que escolher uma foto só!!
    Espero que os não-gremistas não fiquem bravos comigo!! Vou tirar mais fotos na próxima vez pra me mostrar com outros brasileiros :)
  • SophiaMK
    Por acaso você passou em Curitiba? Completamente diferente do resto do país... E que eca hein, torcedor do Grêmio agora?! Atlético Paranaense na veia malandro! Se bem que eu sou Mineira (Minas Gerais) então na minha modesta opinião você tem que visitar Ouro Preto!
  • Vou visitar Minas Gerais com certeza quando puder!! Juro :)
  • Renata Capdeville
    Oi, Benny!
    Gostei muito do artigo. Deu para sentir a sua paixão.
    Obrigada por cuidar da fama das brasileiras :)
  • Pode deixar!! Adoro vocês - queria mostrar pra todo mundo que não é por razões chatas ;) Mas posso confirmar que são as mais lindas do mundo :D
  • Elaine
    Hello I am Brazilian I really enjoyed your post, especially the promise to kick in capoeira "butt" of those who say that're easy hehehe
    Actually in Brazil is more liberal in a matter of clothes, but these things also see in European countries, still does not mean we're easy.
    We have morality, respect, commitment to society and economic independence.
    And be very welcome in this country which is also European, African, Asian and American.
    Come to the Northeast of Brazil further guarantee you will learn a lot, even with our "Portuguese nordestinizado" hehehe
  • Thanks for the agreement - glad you liked what I had to say!
    I lived in the Northeast 2 years ago and really enjoyed it :) If you click the link to my videos (flags on the right) you can see some videos I made there! I was speaking Nordestinizado all the time after that trip with Brazilians I met abroad until I moved to Rio!
  • Jay
    During my time in Spain i met a lot of Brazilians, and they are generally good people.
    What i like most about them, is that they seem to be joyful people. They are always up for a good time.

    I love portuguese and speak it a bit, after i dominate Spanish, my goal is to learn the basics of portuguese.
    I'm a bit scared that i'll mix up spanish and portuguese though. I'd rather speak one language well, that two languages mixed.
  • Don't worry about it Jay - I also met Brazilians first in Spain and had learned Spanish first. But if you live in Brazil you will learn Portuguese, and while there you can meet a lot of Argentines for example to maintain your Spanish so you don't mix up the two ;)
  • A very flattering article, thanks! I couldn't agree more, and now I can share my/your views on us Brazilians with other people without having written a self-eulogy myself... I'm sure you will become a Brazilian eventually, as you are definitely in the right path!
  • Thanks Graci!! Hopefully this article shows people that I've got a little brazuca in me ;)
  • Hey, I loved your post and I can certainly say that I also do love Brazil, mostly because I'm a Brazilian :)
    This made my day,
    Cheers.
  • Brazil made my year (several times), it's the least I could do :)
  • Danilo
    Me senti em casa lendo isso... muito legal... you're on the right track.
  • Fico muito feliz!! Valeu :)
  • Hiya!
    Happened to come across your post randomly....loved it. Glad that ya had a good time in Brazil! =)
    I'm brazilian but I've been living in Ireland for almost 2yrs. Well, have to say that I'm totally in love with your country! When you say about the philosophy of "a stranger is just a friend you haven’t met yet" is so true! Irish people are good people as well...nice, friendly, good fun!
    Enjoy Thailand! x =)
    Ellen
  • Thanks so much Ellen!! :) Yes, that aspect is definitely something us Irish and Brazilians share!! Glad you are enjoying Ireland - I'll be back soon (for a brief visit)
  • A friend of mine shared the link to your post... and I was so happy to hear all this about my country and our people!!! :D
    It's so nice to know that you found your place in our country and that you feel brazilian! :)

    Thanks for sharing your impressions and letting us be even more proud of ourselves ;)

    And good luck in learning the language!! Hope you will get to the level when even we cannot say you're not from here ;)
  • I kind of did reach that objective in the end! But I'm not done with Brazil of course - I'll be back :D
  • Hello, benny!
    Such a nice post!! It really made me (more) proud of being a Brazilian!

    I don't know if you have already visited Brasilia, but if you ever come here, let me know! I'd love to show you around the city and help you with your mission of becoming a Brazilian!! I have some friends that would love to meet you!

    And, by the way, your written Portuguese is really good! Congrats!

    xoxo

    Layla
  • Thanks Layla!! Brasília is one part of the country I haven't been to yet, so I'll visit it when I get the chance - hope to meet you there some day and you can introduce me to your friends ;)
  • danielebrandini
    Porto Alegre, RS, Brasil, Tchê! I really liked your article :)
  • Thanks ;)
  • danielebrandini
    Você entende o que é ser brasileiro(a)!! Ser feliz com simplicidade e alegria! Seja muito bem vindo sempre ao Brasil, esse país é nosso, é de todo mundo.Não se preocupe em parecer ser brasileiro, seu coração já é, that's enough.:)
  • Gostei!! :)
  • Really nice post! I'm twitting it. (:
    Also, I LOVE the pic you used. I'm using the same shirt (Grêmio's) as those guys, in my avatar. hahah

    xoxo,
    Natascha
  • Thanks for the tweet ;) I knew using the Grêmio photo would make some people happy (and others angry!!) It's the best photo I have with me and Brazilians - I should take some more :)
  • Gleyce
    Benny
    Estou morando em Londres desde fevereiro do ano passado e te ouvir falando sobre a minha terrinha me deixou com uma saudade absurda!!!
    Muito boa sorte na sua busca de se tornar mais 'brasuca' ainda - porque no coracao voce definitivamente ja e! ;)
    Beijos
  • oww, muito obrigado!! :) Me sinto muito brazuca mesmo :D Posso entender as suas suadades, agora também tenho porque estou fora do Brasil!
  • fkwan
    Yup, you're absolutely right. I haven't been able to go to Brazil, but I fell in love with the people and the language pretty much like you did...well, sorta. I heard a piece of music -- Tom Jobim and Elis Regina singing Águas de março" and freaked totally out. (My late mom was a big Jobim fan.) I had to find out more about them and there was nothing biographical really in English so I learned the language to read the books and then was wildly hooked, almost ran away with a guy and thought better of it (I was married), but the temptation will linger forever...
  • Thanks for sharing that story! :) Why not satisfy that temptation?? Go check out the best country in the world :D
  • Douglas
    Amazing!!! Muito bom mesmo, o seu texto! Parabéns! XD
  • Valeu!!
  • Luciana
    Agora você deixou os brasileiros ainda mais orgulhosos! Rss
    Que bom que você tá gostando tanto daqui Benny!
    Você ainda vai ser um carioca da gema malandro!

    Abraço!
  • Hey, I loved your post and I can certainly say that I also do love Brazil, mostly because I'm a Brazilian :)
    This made my day,
    Cheers.
  • Glad you liked it ;)
  • troy
    Good to see that I'm not the only one who has experienced Brazil-Mania! About 13 years ago I became friends with some Brazilians and fell in love. I think you're right about motivation. I doubt I would have gotten very far with Portuguese had I not seem something very special in my Brazilian friends. Two years ago I married a Brazilian. She says I'm more Brazilian than her and likes to joke that I have a radar for detecting Brazilians :-)
  • Adorei as respostas do povo que mais gosto :D :D
    @Adrias Pode traduzir :) Só quero um link pra o artigo original é que vc explique que foi eu que escrevi etc. Na verdade, fico feliz! Quero mostrar pra todo mundo quanto eu adoro os brazucas!! Quando a tradução for pronta, vou colocar um link ao final deste artigo ;)
    @Pond Jumpers - Yes, I hoped to convey why I love this place in the article! There are plenty of countries with lovely beaches and great parties etc., but Brazil has that and much more ;)
    @Rogério I always have a reverse culture shock going back to Europe and find the distance between people (in Northern countries) frustrating. I throw the local countries rules out the window when I regularly meet with Brazilians though ;)

    Don't forget to share this article with your friends so more people know how great Brazilians are :D
  • Adrias
    Oi, Benny,
    Posso traduzir esse teu post para português e postar no meu blog/site/proz.com profile? Estava buscando mesmo algo sobre o Brasil, que não fosse um texto turístico da prefeitura, ou algo convencional em sem graça. E também não queria traduzir coisas que possam ter copyright. Posso?
    Um abraço,
    Adrias
  • Adrias
    Nunca havia visto uma declaração de amor tão completa pela minha terra natal!!! Eu mesma sou do Rio e vivi em 7 estados do Brasil e conheço alguns outros mais....e ...concordo com você!! E o Rio mesmo é....notável, não é mesmo!
    Um abraço,
    Adrias
  • Julia
    Great Benny!
  • I've never been to Brazil, but you sure are making a great argument for a visit! There are so many places to visit; it's so hard to decide where to go/live next.
  • Well, knowing benny in person i know how big is his love for us brazilians and our culture. I totally agree when he says tha twe are proud of our country and roots. I have been in some europeans coutry and i have some dificulties to understand how they behave differently like not hug or smile when you meet some one... and other things that benny already said. so i really loved this post, anyway this blog is awesome1 thnaks benny to share with us! see yah!
    .-= Rogério´s last blog ..Vistos e carimbos =-.
  • Awesome to read your Blog..Great insite into Brasil and the culture here!

    :)

    Zezinho
  • Larissa Kochem
    Great article Benny! Loved that you shared it with us. Let's talk about it in the weekly meeting. See ya there.

    Beijos!!!
  • @Johano Well spotted! 200,000 isn't that much of an impressive population :P I've edited it ;)
    @p Brazil is the best therapy!! I always leave the country chilled out and with a smile on my face :D
    @Diogo Thanks!!! I also feel like I have a bit of Brazilian spirit - hope to gain some more in this visit :)
    @Goŝka It doesn't necessarily have to be strangers, a lot of Europeans have the bubble with their friends and family too. That's what I have a problem with! I met you and you are a hugger though! :D
    @Brian Not that long a time, as the name of the site says, I prefer 3 month stays in places, even places as awesome as Brazil :P I'm going home for Christmas and already getting the ball rolling for my next destination and mission!! But as I said, I'll be back in Brazil soon enough :)
  • Johano
    Are you sure you didn't mean "200 million" instead of "200,000"?
  • p
    I agree!

    Being in Brazil it's almost a therapeutic experience for me. When I'm there, my mind and body are in the right place... it just feels right!

    That's why I'm going there! ;)
    .-= p´s last blog ..The world is a handkerchief. Parte V. =-.
  • Diogo
    As myself being a Brazilian I've to say this is really the spirit of the thing, as I can see you already have the "Brazilian Spirit" I guess you'll not have to work hard on "becoming a Brazilian". I wish you nothing but the best!
    Just a tip: If i were you i wouldn't root for Gremio, Vasco da Gama is the best. ;)
    Have a good time here in Brazil.
  • Goŝka
    I also love brazilian portuguese 'cause it's so sweet and soft when speaking.
    I can see nothing wrong with the 'personal bubble' - I don't like when strangers have it smaller than I have :P but if they start to be sth. more - why not ;). but, I am rather from the 'north' ;)
  • Sounds like you are having a fantastic time. Looks you'll be there for a while. Wonderful people!
    .-= brian ´s last blog ..The Best of NoDebtWorldTravel.com - One Year Later =-.
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