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The late and great Steve Jobs was famous for many things, and was arguably one of the most influential contributors to how advanced personal use technology developed over the last few decades. But another thing that he was quite well known for, which definitely contributed a huge amount to how much he achieved, was his reality distortion field (RDF).

Rather than the mystical powers the name (and my silly photo) suggests, this is simply charm, persistence, boldness and, most importantly, a refusal to give up, which leads to great things being achieved that the average person won’t, since they simply don’t try hard enough.

It’s “distorting” reality, very simply because one “reality” is what people think about you failing, and another is what you think and do, to make sure you succeed. You have to ignore the naysayers, even if some of what they say may be true (i.e. a “reality”), but actually totally irrelevant to you and your situation (e.g. maybe some unhelpful studies show that kids are better learners, but others show that adults are), and focus only on what will bring you in the right direction.

I don’t actually think Steve Jobs was unique in having one. It’s something that could be argued (depending on how you define it) that everyone applies in one way or another. The difference is that some people have configured their RDF to work for them (or to help other people), while the majority of us have ours set to self-sabotage mode. Those who have achieved great things despite setbacks have had a way of living and a mentality that made these things much more likely.

In my mind a RDF is synonymous with a lifestyle and mentality that hacks luck, filters for success, ignores any “signs” from the universe that you should stop, is filled with passion, and helps you to surround yourself with people who will help you achieve that goal.

This is not about the law of attraction; a cheesily marketed and questionably explained technique to “think” yourself to greatness. The point is that a positive mentality combined with a LOT of hard work is what’s really required here. No bogus explanations about quantum psychic energy are required to understand why the following suggestions, with video illustrations, simply work:

1. Don’t let anybody tell you what you can’t do

Will Smith explains it best here. [And I like the fact that there are Taiwanese flags in the background :) ] Read the Rest!

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One problem with seeing the end-result of any feat, is not understanding the processes that went on to get to that point. As my friend Khatzumoto said to me once;

Olympic coverage really ticks me off… you can’t just go up to a person on game day and say how talented they are. So I came up with this rule, that in order to earn the right to watch the Olympics you should have to watch all of their training too!

This issue of ignoring the work that person had to go through to get to the point you see him is a huge problem in language learning. It’s easy to see someone speak a foreign language and dismiss that person as a “genius”, or say that it just comes naturally to them. As if it was their destiny, or a universe-conspired explosion of luck. This is discouraging as each of us thinks about how much we have to struggle, and study and fail because we don’t have natural talent.

While I will always strive to learn as quickly as I can, the fact of the matter is that I can’t, and no other learner can, skip the frustration involved and required to reach a useful level in a foreign language. One reason the title of this blog tends to annoy a lot of people is because of this presumption that I perhaps claim to go to the country, hang out with pretty girls and party all the time in glamorous James-Bond style and magically speak the language at the end; it’s just not fair, so it can’t be true. Learning a language takes hard work, and since spending “only” 3 months on it isn’t hard work, I must be lying.

But here’s the thing. Three months is a really long time. It’s not about counting the months, but counting the hours and the quality of those hours that makes the difference. A lot of my time, especially initially, is spent quite a bit outside of my comfort zone, and actually being tremendously frustrated, and this is something that very few learners do much, even if they spend “lots of time” studying. Read the Rest!

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[Captions in English, Traditional Chinese (native written) & Simplified Chinese (automatic conversion). If you live in China and Youtube is blocked, then check out this video on Youku]

As I’ve explained in great detail before, uploading a video of yourself speaking just after you’ve started to learn a language can be very beneficial.

So with that in mind, a couple of days ago I asked my Chinese teacher (I’ve getting private lessons for now) to translate a script with everything I would say if I was giving a tour of my home in a language I speak fluently. I wanted to explain complex things, like that I replaced my laptop with a desktop, that I don’t really use my fridge etc., and she wrote it up for me in Chinese (which I used for the captions) and in pinyin, which I was studying to learn all the new vocabulary, and memorising the lines themselves since then. This video is the result of that! Read the Rest!

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If you’re a new reader here and would like the most concise version of my best advice to speak from day one, then this video is for you :)

If you’re a long-term reader and have wondered who/what precisely inspired me to start on this road to become a polyglot some day, then you will see me finally share that story in this video.

Although this was only the second time (hopefully of many) in my entire life that I’ve spoken publicly in front of a decent sized audience (the first being at TBEX), a combination of several camera men, a decent microphone and a cool audience made me look like I didn’t hurriedly prepare the speech the night before, and I think I actually managed to convey the speak from day one message pretty well!

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It’s the end of week one of what has definitely been the mission that has stirred up the most interest and discussion, since I started the blog!

I can confirm that after this initial exposure to the language, I have not quite been “humbled” into saying what I’m attempting is impossible just yet, despite what many naysayers are suggesting ;) What I’m attempting is extremely ambitious, and I may not achieve it precisely as I’ve defined it (and get something lower, but still very useful instead), but it is not impossible.

I’ve read the word “impossible” directed at me more in the last week than for any other mission. I’d suggest people read this post for my thoughts on impossibilities.

As annoying as all the “you’ll fail miserably” comments/forum posts/Youtube videos have been, the few that care to actually explain why Chinese is “so hard” have basically given me a summary of the biggest challenges I will face, and advance warning to allow me to think of ways to get through these challenges quicker, with an example or two mentioned in this post. At this stage I believe I’ve heard most of the language’s greatest challenges explained to me, and have some ideas to help me get through them that I’ll update you on as I implement them, or otherwise have found good resources to get tips from those more experienced who are less interested in shooting me down.

Otherwise it’s the usual hardest language mentality that I’ve seen so many times before. In each case (Hungarian, Czech, French, Chinese etc.) where an army of people are ready to inform me that THIS one is the hardest, those arguing dismiss the challenges of learning any other languages as trivial, and in the vast majority of cases they have little to no understanding or appreciation of those languages. Frankly I find this way more arrogant than someone like me saying that maybe he could get somewhere with Chinese quickly. Once I have more experience, confirming (along the lines of this post) that Chinese is not as bad as everyone is making it out to be, I’ll definitely be coming back to this point to explain it in greater detail.

Call me arrogant if you will, but my purpose here is to present Chinese as a manageable task to encourage language learning, for those intimidated by it and sticking to European languages (or worse, and just speaking English) for no reason other than this intimidation.

First week summary: Arrival

Anyway, here is a blow by blow update of everything I’ve done this first week! Read the Rest!

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As explained in the video, I’m currently in Taipei, Taiwan, and this is day one of my mission to speak fluent Mandarin in 3 months! :)

That’s fluency as in being able to do most of what I can do in English, in social situations in Mandarin. I’ll still make some mistakes, but I won’t hold up the flow of conversations (on either my side or the person I’m talking to) i.e. conversational fluency rather than professional level fluency. (Or something along the lines of level C1, specifically for the oral component of the European Common Framework of languages testing system, although I don’t plan to sit any tests this time).

As always, I’ll update you with videos as I progress, starting with a quick look at my home in a week or two, which I’ll be giving on camera entirely in Mandarin (with a script prepared in advance), and hopefully ending with a spontaneous interview with a native at the end of March! This is coming from a start point of only knowing “ni hao” as I boarded my flight! Read the Rest!

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My flight is about to leave for my new home for the next 3 months (announced here on the blog on Wednesday), so I’ll make this quick ;)

I have just released a brand new video series called Speak from Day 1. I will be packaging it with new purchases of the Language Hacking Guide from Thursday 12:00EST, and increasing the price of the overall package from the current price of the Language Hacking Guide. So the best time to buy is now before that price increase. Also, from Thursday you will no longer be able to buy the Language Hacking Guide by itself.

For full details of what’s included, click this link and check out the tabs at the top that expand on the price options and what you get if you buy it:

Speak from day 1 video course

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Best Fi3M posts of 2011

December 23, 2011 | 4 comments | Category: off topic

 

It’s that time of the year again! I’m back in Cavan with my family, and sharing my favourite posts on the blog this year :)

Best language tip posts

Most of the posts below are more related to travel or ideas I wanted to share, but I know many people read the blog for specific inspiration and tips in learning their language – here are some posts that share these tips:

The linguistic genius of adults: Research confirms we’re better learners than kids!

Since this excuse is by among the biggest ones (kids are better learners than adults, so why bother?) I wrote not one, but two posts on the topic. This one refers to scientific research that tests both groups fairly (most comparisons are made in purely academic settings, which I would agree that children probably do better in).

Why adults are better learners than kids (So NO, you’re not too old!)

This post shares some more initial thoughts about how invalid this excuse is.

6 easy ways to roll your R

I’m amazed that some English speakers can be learning a language for a year or more and STILL use an ugly English R in their target language! And they are surprised that some natives don’t want to speak that language with them? I dealt with the R issue first when I was learning Spanish, and this post shares several easy ways English speakers can get started to sound more authentic in the target language.

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